Is 5’9″ tall for a woman ?

Is 5’9″ tall for a woman?

In my opinion, 5’9″ is absolutely perfect height for a woman. It isn’t too short and isn’t average, it’s slightly above average, but not too much.

For example, at being 6ft tall I feel sometimes gigantic and out of place, and way too different from other people.

But at 5’9″ a woman still can be above average and still can stand out, especially, if she decides to wear high heels shoes.


If I could choose any height, I’d probably pick 5’9″ for myself. Being 6ft tall makes you too unique, too different, it can be good, but sometimes not so much.

Being unique is almost like being a celebrity, some people will love it and embrace it, while others could be put off by it.

Do I enjoy being 6ft tall at all? I really do like how I look, but like every woman, sometimes we wish we would have something that we don’t have.

Like every woman, we often see a room for perfection. Most of the time I do enjoy how I look and very much so, especially when I am home alone. But when I am around people I don’t enjoy my looks as much only because it makes you so different, it’s hard to fit in and you have a tendency to blame it on looks.

I think many women are very self conscious and much more judgmental than men are about looks. Women can see imperfections in themselves and others so much easier. Living with a man for so many years, it’s amazing how little consideration he gives to how he looks. Men have other achievements to be proud of than just being “attractive”.

Being 5’9″ or taller

I really think 5’9″ is such perfect height. You still could be unique at this height and not be too worried if you are too tall.

The main reason why women prefer to be shorter is mostly because they like tall men. Also, tall women assume that short men, probably prefer a shorter woman, so that’s why.

I actually noticed that men don’t care about a woman’s height as much as woman does. I’m not too sure why it’s this way but it is. It’s much harder for a woman to accept much shorter man than it is for a man to accept much taller woman.

This is why being 5’9″ is so perfect because there would be more taller guys for a 5’9″ tall woman than for 6 ft tall woman.

If you are 5’9 and you are a woman, enjoy it very much. So many shorter and taller women would envy you.

But bedsides height, women are more worried about looking feminine or looking pretty or looking younger. If you look young, beautiful and feminine, then you will look great at any height. But the taller you are, the more features will stand out. If you are beautiful, you will look even more beautiful if you are taller.

As far as me, I’m just very unique. I can seem beautiful or not, depending on who looks at me. My beauty isn’t “standard” so to speak. I’m very unique and my uniqueness can either draw people to me or put them off.

Overall I’m alright with my height because I am not looking to impress people anymore. When I was younger and tried to impress others or find a husband it was a bigger worry for me than now. With age comes more peace for sure.


Tall women with short men

Tall women with short men

Yes, women like short men or tall men and all types of men. Most women prefer a man to be taller because of social expectations but when it comes down whether they like a man or not…his height won’t be the most important quality in her attraction to a man. Men give more importance to “certain look” than women do. I heard many men told me they would date only thin women or said they only get sexually attracted to thin women.

As far as women, I never heard a woman say she gets attracted only to tall men or only to muscular men. Women’s sexuality isn’t as visual, where as in men, visual attraction plays a lot bigger role. If you are a short men, you don’t have to worry about woman’s sexual attraction, it’s more in her mind than in her eyes.


Tall woman with short men is Sexy!

Yes, tall women with short men look very sexy, it’s so rare and very attractive. You can see many celebrities where a man is a lot shorter than a woman. Look at the pictures of tall men and women in this article “Why do tall women love little men?” It’s so beautiful to see a tall woman with a with a short man. Tall women turn peoples heads who eager to look at them and when a tall woman with much shorter man they turn heads even more.

Many rich and famous men dated very tall women and in our society tall is equal to beauty, model type looking, so no surprise why rich men and go for tall women too. If a man and a woman secure enough in who they are, it won’t matter how tall they are either.

Experience with short men in my life

In my article Dating as a Tall Girl you can read more about my dating experience.

I can tell you it was great to date short men also, girls can easily fall in love with a short man too.

I never felt uncomfortable dating short guys. I always dated many men at that time in my search for my soul mate. Those men put so much effort in getting my attention, asking me out, being so nice and affectionate maybe that’s why I never felt uncomfortable with them.

They made me feel loved, welcomed and appreciated that I was always happy around them.

Usually I think I prefer taller men but when I meet a short man who I really like I could easily forget about all my preferences and expectations.

Short Husband

Maybe you wonder if my husband is a tall man or not. My husband and I are about the same height but I don’t consider him to be tall at all. Mostly, because when we are around people, people usually tell me “Wow, you are so tall!” but they never tell it to my husband even that we are similar height! So, he isn’t tall at all, but it’s o’kay. Very often I look even taller than he is because of my shoes and because I’m a woman. You know, women aren’t expected to be my height… I always thought before I probably would marry a taller man, but I was wrong.

I found so many attractive qualities in him that it wasn’t even a question in my mind whether I want to be with him or not. I married him even that he is not the tallest men I dated. He has unique qualities that I can’t find in anyone. His wonderful character is more important than his lack of height. We have been married for many years already.

My sister is married to a man who is the same height as her as well (she is about 5’9 tall and her husband is similar height also). So, there are many women who want to marry a man that is not taller than her.

What kind of women do men like ?

Different types of women

It depends on a man. People who are coming to my website usually like and look for very tall women. Many men like thin women, other men love big, fat, or overweight or obese women. Some men love very tiny short women and other men love older women. As you can see there is a variety of women and men who love different types of women.

Beauty is in every woman. Every woman is desirable by someone no matter of her size, shape or hair color.

Why we like what we like


Each of us had different experiences in our lives. This is what makes us so unique. Even the happiest couples and happiest soul mates have something different about them and it is fine. If you had positive experiences with certain type of women who look big or tall then you will always be attracted to them or look for them.

Being judgmental

We do judge people even if we don’t realize we are doing it. We don’t always do it on purpose or to get something out of it. We do it because we have previous experiences and we are avoiding getting hurt and we want to find what we like. Everyone wants to be happy, so by unconscious judging we are looking for what will make us happy. We get attracted to certain people if we had positive experiences with someone similar to them.

Personality men love

Most men love soft, feminine women. Of course there are some men who love dominant and powerful women, but in my experience most men prefer a softer woman.

Woman’s personality and positive attitude is more important than anything else.

I only realized how much personality is important by comparing to my short friends.

I was always very tall, so one day, when I was younger, I was talking to my friend, telling her that she probably will have more dates and maybe will get married earlier because there are probably aren’t too many tall men for me to choose from.

After that we have grown and started dating, It turned out I was getting a lot more dates and got married earlier because of my personality.

Another important factor is positivity. I was always noticing positive sides in a man if I liked him and my girl friend was a lot more judgmental no matter who she would meet. If we want to be happy we need to love men. If we love them, they will feel it and love us back too.

Why tall women like Short men

Did you meet tall women who only prefer short men? Height prefference can be such a unique preference that some tall women are looking for. Not all tall women want short men but many do. Did you meet someone who would tell you they like only the certain way or have a certain type of hair color or eye color? If a tall woman had more positive experiences in her life with a shorter men than she will prefer shorter men. If a tall woman was hurt by tall guy then she is more likely to avoid anyone who look like him.


Women have values

Different women have different values. Some women want only good looking guys, other women want only rich guys, and other women want only short guys. You never know what is her values until you talk to her, spend time with her and learn more about her. Many women have a very specific set of qualities they are looking for. Maybe she can find all her unique qualities in a short guy. If a short men can meet most of her important needs then of course she will choose him.

I noticed more and more women marry shorter men. Not every woman is as tall as I am, but even average height girls are often marry a shorter man. I think it is very beautiful to see a man with a taller woman.

Look at Tom Cruz and Katie Holmes, they are a cute couple, she is taller than he is especially when she is on heels.

If I wear heels then my husband is shorter than me too and we both still look good together.

For some women height is a very important quality in a man and they are specifically looking for only tall men. So, it depends on a woman.

Advice to short men

If you love tall women and you meet a very tall woman, don’t just assume she is looking for tall men. Give her a chance. You don’t know her yet, so maybe she loves shorter guys.

Or maybe her most important qualities in a man isn’t height at all. Take your time and get to know her, you might be pleasantly surprised and you could have a great relationship together!

How to tell if a woman is dominant

If you are looking for a dominant woman, notice her character traits. Dominant women like to be controlling, like to be in charge and like to be first in everything. The same characteristics as you would find in a dominant male. Dominance is similar in men and women, it’s a desire for power and desire to control someone. Most of us have dominant characteristics as a part of our nature but some people have them even more than others.

For a dominant woman it would be very important to have more power than her partner. There are many couples where a wife is a boss in the family if you know what I mean.


Dominance in sexuality

Sometimes dominance can be expressed in people only as sexuality. I don’t consider myself a very dominant woman, so I don’t know if any women really dream and want to dominate men. Maybe some women like it. For example, some men dream about being dominated by a dominant woman only sexually, they just have such fantasy for some reason. Maybe a man had a strange experience with dominant women in childhood or youth, so he carries that psychological effect through out all his life.

In our society men are more encouraged to be dominant than women, so for a man who would like to obey to a woman it can be a secret desire that he afraid to express openly. For such men can be even harder to find a dominant woman of his dreams. Some men like to think about giantesses because of a dominant fantasy and they like taller and physically strong women who can have more power over him.

Can you spot a dominant woman by her looks?

Not really. Looks have not much to do with whether she is dominant or not. But the way she speaks, walks, dresses and carries herself can give you some clues if she is a dominant type. Some women look dominant and masculine but they are soft inside. Some women may look very tall and strong but they don’t want to dominate anyone.

For example, I saw a very big dominant woman on tv, she had huge muscles and was stronger than most men are. Surprisingly, when someone asked her what kind of man she wants to have, she answered, she wanted even a stronger man than she is. At first I thought if she is so strong she would want a weaker man, but no, she was only attracted to even stronger men. I never met a woman who would be attracted to a weaker man yet.

If you have a fantasy to find a strong woman who can protect you and take care of

Why short men are attracted to tall women ?

Short men do get attracted to tall women. Did you hear saying “Opposites attract” it is true. Just because short men and a tall woman look a lot different they still can have an attraction toward each other. I’m a tall woman and I was attracted to short men before.

As far as attraction it is no different if I was attracted to a tall man. Many men are taught by our society that they have to be taller but in reality who really cares? It’s o’kay to be attracted to a taller woman if you are both happy.

Sometimes we decide what we prefer in our perfect mate as far as height and looks. Many of our characteristics come from our own subconscious and conscious needs. If you can meet most of them in your tall woman that is great.


Tall women and sexuality

Tall women are sexy. People are attracted to tall women because they look beautiful, sexy and elegant. Many get attracted to tall women because they look so unusual and exotic.

It is so rare to meet a tall woman and if you do spend time with her you would feel as a lucky guy with a very interesting experience.

Other men are looking for a dominant looks or personality in a woman they believe tall woman will meet their needs.

Sometimes men had certain experiences happened in their youth and they feel always attracted to tall women since then. And other men get attracted to tall women because they like her personality and she is a great match to him in every way.

My personal experience

My husband isn’t taller than me, so maybe you wonder how we got attracted to each other? First of all, he never dated any tall women before me. It wasn’t that he was looking for a very tall woman or a model.

It just happened that I liked him and I was nice to him, so he fall in love with my looks and personality. He loves me to be so tall and thin and beautiful. Not everyone thinks I am a beautiful person but it’s important to me that he does.

If I was taller or shorter he would still love me as much. He loves me being me. I liked him a lot too that’s why I was very happy to marry him. I’m still very happy to be married.

He is smart and understanding and can meet most of my needs. Very often I look taller than he is especially if I wear heels. He never gets intimidated by my height, because he is a very secure person. He loves me being so tall and beautiful.

Sexy tall women

Sexy Tall Women

Sometimes people are finding my website using keywords “sexy tall women” or “nude tall women”, it was a surprise to me and I decided to write an article and mention what I think about it.

Men have very creative mind to type in search something like this…I definitely would never think to type “nude men” or anything of this nature in search. So, I’m surprised and even glad people have very strong interest in tall women.

This website contains “no nude images” but only regular pictures and my blog. If you read my article life as a tall girl you will notice that other than strange comments about my height I received in my life, I didn’t feel people admiration of particularly my size. After I started this website I realized how much more people have genuine interest in tall women.


If someone types tall nude women it definitely shows there is even more interest in tall women than just “how tall are you?” curiosity. I’m actually glad people find tall women sexy and want to explore more about it.

Sexy is beautiful

Tall sexy women are beautiful whether they are dressed or not. When I see myself in the mirror I like the way, I look, and sometimes I don’t even realize that some people want to look at and admire tall beautiful womens’ bodies. I don’t promote nudity in any way but I’m glad that some people find it beautiful and sexy.

If some women are reading my article, whether you are tall or short, I hope you will realize how beautiful you are and men love to watch us.

What “Sexy” means

Term “Sexy” is so much more broad now days that I have to explain what it means to me and other people. Words “tall sexy women” aren’t just about nudity. I noticed when men complement women “you are sexy” they mean “you are beautiful” because there were times in my life when men would tell me “you look sexy” and I would think they meant I look like a slut or hooker, so I was offended. Later, I realized that many men when they say “sexy” they don’t mean to offend a woman but complement her. They mean it more like they like a woman and trying to give her a compliment.

Men love to use words “sexy” often, maybe because they would love to hear it sometimes too, but women hear it so much that it sometimes can take a different meaning.

How recession effects tall women ?

You probably heard many stories how recession and bad economy effects people all over the world. It’s true, time is tough right now for many people. Good economy is so important to all of us. We want to have a good life and never have to worry about money, businesses and other things.

How do tall women feel about recession? Tall women have the same feelings as you do about recession. Tall women maybe even have stronger feelings and attitudes about it for various reasons. Tall woman is any woman above average height. In America average height is about 5’4″. If a woman is at least 5’8″ she could feel very tall comparing to others especially if she loves to wear heels often.


Shopping for tall women during bad economy

Shopping for tall women is expensive.

From my own experience it is really hard to find anything on sale that is long and can fit me. I really like to shop but shopping for a tall woman can be a very exhausting experience. It is very hard to find pants long enough and thin enough. Most pants in stores can’t fit me. This is why I have to buy expensive jeans and pants. During recessions tall women would want to save their money too as every body else does, but clothes isn’t cheap at any time for a tall woman.

Many stores like to offer sales during recession, but for a tall woman is hard to find any clothes at any time, recession or not. Finding shirts, coats and sweaters can be a challenge too for a tall woman. Tall women have very long arms that would be hard to find clothes for.

Saving tips for tall women

Here are some tips for you if you are a tall woman:

1)Try to shop less

2)Work more or try to get another job

3)Look for sale items. Never say never, sometimes it’s possible to find something on sale even for a very tall woman.

4)Drive used or cheaper car

5)Don’t refuse to get spoiled. Men love to spoil women. If your boyfriend or husband wants to spoil you can let him.

Finding job in recession

It can be hard for a tall woman to find a job too. Many employers are very picky what kind of worker they want to have. If you are a tall woman you will have to follow general advice for all women in finding work. Good communication skills is a must. Great personality is good too and of course it’s better to be smart. All tall women I met in my life were very ambitious and very smart. And of course, keep try until you find a job or get other better ideas how to make money during recession.

Faith during recession

Believe in your strength and have faith in a good future, believe in God. It will help you to overcome any hard times. People can really get used to anything. Look at so many stories about how rich people lost everything and then got back on their feet. Life is beautiful no matter what. It’s all in our mind how we perceive our situation. Find positive in every situation you have. If you need money in your life, it can be a positive thing too, but how?

For example, if you need money it can motivate you to do certain thins and experiment that you wouldn’t have to do if you had lots of money. What is a lot of money is different for each of us. And you can find a lot of positives in any situation. If times are really hard for you it can be a valuable personal growth time that you wouldn’t have experienced in any other situation.

So, be happy and stay positive no matter what!

Where to meet tall women ?

If you are very attracted to tall beautiful women and you really want to meet such tall woman of your dreams, you need to start your search as soon as possible. Tall women are hard to find because they are so rare. If you will wait for her just to show up at your door looking for you it might never happen.

Does height matter to women ?

You need to start searching for a woman of your dreams. The more women you will meet the more chance you will find someone you really like. If you have a shy personality and you never pursued women before, it’s time to start now. If you don’t know how to deal with high amount of rejection, you need to practice positive self talk and realize that it’s not a rejection, it’s her missed opportunity. Learn to take leadership in your dating life.
Where to start

Big cities are the best. If you live in a big city you will more likely meet more tall women than anywhere else. If you don’t live in a big city then you can go to a larger nearby city on a weekend or you can move to a big city.

Yes, it’s easier to meet a tall woman in a big city, but it’s also harder to compete with her demands and values. Sometimes women from big cities expect a lot from a potential partner. So, be ready for a challenge. Have a positive outlook on life, look great, have a great job and interesting life. Many women are attracted to men who have interesting and exciting life. Work on that and women will get attracted to you easier. If you have a shy personality and you don’t like to mention your achievements and talk maybe it would be harder for you to attract women. But many women love mysterious men too! Be the best you can be and have faith in your attractiveness and women will start loving you.

Sure. You can try online dating too. You can meet many tall women on dating sites.

You can even choose height, age and other characteristics, but you will need to be cautious because not many people are as honest as you are.

Sometimes it could be harder to meet women online because many women are afraid of online dating. You definitely could meet a great adventurous woman online, so keep trying.

Usually women get a lot more messages than men do, so be persistent in your search, don’t give up and will find a tall beautiful woman.

How to get her attention.

You can get her attention by simply saying hi, and start short conversation with her. Try to get her phone number and tell her you will call her. You can tell her a nice complement, women love complements and this way you will feel less focused on yourself that can make your conversation easier.

As you can see, getting her attention is very easy, just to say hi and start talking. Women love friendly men, so she won’t think anything out of it. If she is not interested in you, don’t worry about it and move on to the next woman

How tall is too tall for a woman ?

How tall is too tall for a woman it depends on who you ask. If you ask me, I would say the taller the better. If I see a tall woman, anyone who is taller 6’0″ is considered tall or even very tall.


If you are shorter person then someone who is 5’9″ will be too tall in your opinion.

So, as you can see too tall for a woman would be different for every person. I a man is 5 ft tall, and if he prefers short women, than someone who is 6′ or 6’5″ would be too tall for him. But if a man loves tall women then there wouldn’t be a limit on how tall is too tall for a woman.

Too tall for a woman

If you feel as you are too tall for a woman, you need to know that many tall women feel that. You are not alone if you worry about it. Embrace your height and someone will notice and love you and your height.

Sometimes very short people think that I’m 7ft tall because they can’t estimate well and because I look very tall for a woman. It does surprise me to hear that people think I’m taller than I am but I understand where they are coming from.

If someone thought you are much taller than you are, it doesn’t mean that you too tall for a woman, it’s just that a short person wasn’t around tall people often and isn’t as accurate in estimation as you hoped him to be.

We all have something to worry about…height, looks and more

If you worry you are too tall, you need to remember that every person worries about something. Many people, especially women worry if they look thin or fat or beautiful. I met some women in my life who couldn’t go out without make up because they worried how they look without make up and afraid to be seen like that.

If you are a tall woman, you will get attention from people that will make you feel too tall or uncomfortable because of their questions. Remember that they don’t mean to offend you if they think you are taller.


Be proud to be tall and never think that you too tall. Women have right to be tall and there shouldn’t height restrictions for any person.