Is 5’9″ tall for a woman ?

Is 5’9″ tall for a woman?

In my opinion, 5’9″ is absolutely perfect height for a woman. It isn’t too short and isn’t average, it’s slightly above average, but not too much.

For example, at being 6ft tall I feel sometimes gigantic and out of place, and way too different from other people.

But at 5’9″ a woman still can be above average and still can stand out, especially, if she decides to wear high heels shoes.

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If I could choose any height, I’d probably pick 5’9″ for myself. Being 6ft tall makes you too unique, too different, it can be good, but sometimes not so much.

Being unique is almost like being a celebrity, some people will love it and embrace it, while others could be put off by it.

Do I enjoy being 6ft tall at all? I really do like how I look, but like every woman, sometimes we wish we would have something that we don’t have.

Like every woman, we often see a room for perfection. Most of the time I do enjoy how I look and very much so, especially when I am home alone. But when I am around people I don’t enjoy my looks as much only because it makes you so different, it’s hard to fit in and you have a tendency to blame it on looks.

I think many women are very self conscious and much more judgmental than men are about looks. Women can see imperfections in themselves and others so much easier. Living with a man for so many years, it’s amazing how little consideration he gives to how he looks. Men have other achievements to be proud of than just being “attractive”.

Being 5’9″ or taller

I really think 5’9″ is such perfect height. You still could be unique at this height and not be too worried if you are too tall.

The main reason why women prefer to be shorter is mostly because they like tall men. Also, tall women assume that short men, probably prefer a shorter woman, so that’s why.

I actually noticed that men don’t care about a woman’s height as much as woman does. I’m not too sure why it’s this way but it is. It’s much harder for a woman to accept much shorter man than it is for a man to accept much taller woman.

This is why being 5’9″ is so perfect because there would be more taller guys for a 5’9″ tall woman than for 6 ft tall woman.

If you are 5’9 and you are a woman, enjoy it very much. So many shorter and taller women would envy you.

But bedsides height, women are more worried about looking feminine or looking pretty or looking younger. If you look young, beautiful and feminine, then you will look great at any height. But the taller you are, the more features will stand out. If you are beautiful, you will look even more beautiful if you are taller.

As far as me, I’m just very unique. I can seem beautiful or not, depending on who looks at me. My beauty isn’t “standard” so to speak. I’m very unique and my uniqueness can either draw people to me or put them off.

Overall I’m alright with my height because I am not looking to impress people anymore. When I was younger and tried to impress others or find a husband it was a bigger worry for me than now. With age comes more peace for sure.

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Are short men unlucky in love ?

What every tall woman should know about herself

It always seems that short guys are either miserable in dating or completely alone and single. Is it really true that short guys are unlucky in love? In my opinion, if a man, whether he is short or tall is alone and single, then he is simply isn’t very needy.

For example, a man whether he is short or tall, would try really hard to pursue a woman if he had a real need. Most people embarrassed to feel needy, they prefer to say “they want a woman in his life” but a true and real need will help a man to get through all the hard work of meeting and pursuing women. And very often it just comes down to a power struggle between a man and a woman, but I’ll write about it more in some other post.

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Very often, single men, simply aren’t as needy as they proclaim to be. It’s not a conscious decision for a man to be so needy or not, it’s just subconscious need that you can’t really control.

A man might desire to be in a relationship in his own fantasy, but in reality he simply doesn’t need a woman as much as he imagined that he did.

If a man had REAL need to be in a relationship, then he wouldn’t sleep or eat but keep looking for a woman to satisfy his need. Most men they think they “need” or “want” a woman, but it’s nothing comparing to the real need.

If a certain man needed love so badly, then he would not only think about it, but he would be doing something every day, even many times a day, attempting to make his dreams come true and get closer to a desired “relationship”.

Too many men simply give up too early. Some women approach finding a husband as important task as finding a job. They put a highest priority on it. But a lot of men, don’t take relationships as seriously as they could. Men think they have done enough, but in reality they could do so much more.

So, short men aren’t particularly unlucky in love, but they simply underestimate the effort that it takes to find a woman of his dreams. A lot of men treat jobs a lot more seriously than they approach a relationship.

Short men can be lucky in love

A lot of short men have been hurt too much, that’s why it’s painful to give more effort without any reassurance. Once you get burned a few times, it’s really hard to try some more.

If you are a short man and you feel like you given a lot but didn’t receive much back from women, you need to realize that it’s always good to try.

Don’t be afraid to try and experience love. But at the same time, you have to remember that maybe you are just not a needy guy and you don’t have to be in a relationship. It’s perfectly o’kay to be single and just to focus on your job or hobbies.

So many people put unrealistic expectations on a relationship, but in reality, it’s ok to be single and it’s ok to be in a relationship as well. Don’t be ashamed for being single, maybe you are just a very independent man.

Some women are actually put off by independent men, most women usually want to feel close and have you as a friend to do things with, but for a lot of men it’s a hard concept to grasp.

No, short men not unlucky in love, but a lot of them just aren’t as needy as they think they are or aren’t trying as hard as they should or they get attracted to a wrong person and expect too much from initially wrong woman, or they are simply too independent.

Why tall women like Short men

Did you meet tall women who only prefer short men? Height prefference can be such a unique preference that some tall women are looking for. Not all tall women want short men but many do. Did you meet someone who would tell you they like only the certain way or have a certain type of hair color or eye color? If a tall woman had more positive experiences in her life with a shorter men than she will prefer shorter men. If a tall woman was hurt by tall guy then she is more likely to avoid anyone who look like him.

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Women have values

Different women have different values. Some women want only good looking guys, other women want only rich guys, and other women want only short guys. You never know what is her values until you talk to her, spend time with her and learn more about her. Many women have a very specific set of qualities they are looking for. Maybe she can find all her unique qualities in a short guy. If a short men can meet most of her important needs then of course she will choose him.

I noticed more and more women marry shorter men. Not every woman is as tall as I am, but even average height girls are often marry a shorter man. I think it is very beautiful to see a man with a taller woman.

Look at Tom Cruz and Katie Holmes, they are a cute couple, she is taller than he is especially when she is on heels.

If I wear heels then my husband is shorter than me too and we both still look good together.

For some women height is a very important quality in a man and they are specifically looking for only tall men. So, it depends on a woman.

Advice to short men

If you love tall women and you meet a very tall woman, don’t just assume she is looking for tall men. Give her a chance. You don’t know her yet, so maybe she loves shorter guys.

Or maybe her most important qualities in a man isn’t height at all. Take your time and get to know her, you might be pleasantly surprised and you could have a great relationship together!

How to tell if a woman is dominant

If you are looking for a dominant woman, notice her character traits. Dominant women like to be controlling, like to be in charge and like to be first in everything. The same characteristics as you would find in a dominant male. Dominance is similar in men and women, it’s a desire for power and desire to control someone. Most of us have dominant characteristics as a part of our nature but some people have them even more than others.

For a dominant woman it would be very important to have more power than her partner. There are many couples where a wife is a boss in the family if you know what I mean.

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Dominance in sexuality

Sometimes dominance can be expressed in people only as sexuality. I don’t consider myself a very dominant woman, so I don’t know if any women really dream and want to dominate men. Maybe some women like it. For example, some men dream about being dominated by a dominant woman only sexually, they just have such fantasy for some reason. Maybe a man had a strange experience with dominant women in childhood or youth, so he carries that psychological effect through out all his life.

In our society men are more encouraged to be dominant than women, so for a man who would like to obey to a woman it can be a secret desire that he afraid to express openly. For such men can be even harder to find a dominant woman of his dreams. Some men like to think about giantesses because of a dominant fantasy and they like taller and physically strong women who can have more power over him.

Can you spot a dominant woman by her looks?

Not really. Looks have not much to do with whether she is dominant or not. But the way she speaks, walks, dresses and carries herself can give you some clues if she is a dominant type. Some women look dominant and masculine but they are soft inside. Some women may look very tall and strong but they don’t want to dominate anyone.

For example, I saw a very big dominant woman on tv, she had huge muscles and was stronger than most men are. Surprisingly, when someone asked her what kind of man she wants to have, she answered, she wanted even a stronger man than she is. At first I thought if she is so strong she would want a weaker man, but no, she was only attracted to even stronger men. I never met a woman who would be attracted to a weaker man yet.

If you have a fantasy to find a strong woman who can protect you and take care of

Sexy tall women

Sexy Tall Women

Sometimes people are finding my website using keywords “sexy tall women” or “nude tall women”, it was a surprise to me and I decided to write an article and mention what I think about it.

Men have very creative mind to type in search something like this…I definitely would never think to type “nude men” or anything of this nature in search. So, I’m surprised and even glad people have very strong interest in tall women.

This website contains “no nude images” but only regular pictures and my blog. If you read my article life as a tall girl you will notice that other than strange comments about my height I received in my life, I didn’t feel people admiration of particularly my size. After I started this website I realized how much more people have genuine interest in tall women.

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If someone types tall nude women it definitely shows there is even more interest in tall women than just “how tall are you?” curiosity. I’m actually glad people find tall women sexy and want to explore more about it.

Sexy is beautiful

Tall sexy women are beautiful whether they are dressed or not. When I see myself in the mirror I like the way, I look, and sometimes I don’t even realize that some people want to look at and admire tall beautiful womens’ bodies. I don’t promote nudity in any way but I’m glad that some people find it beautiful and sexy.

If some women are reading my article, whether you are tall or short, I hope you will realize how beautiful you are and men love to watch us.

What “Sexy” means

Term “Sexy” is so much more broad now days that I have to explain what it means to me and other people. Words “tall sexy women” aren’t just about nudity. I noticed when men complement women “you are sexy” they mean “you are beautiful” because there were times in my life when men would tell me “you look sexy” and I would think they meant I look like a slut or hooker, so I was offended. Later, I realized that many men when they say “sexy” they don’t mean to offend a woman but complement her. They mean it more like they like a woman and trying to give her a compliment.

Men love to use words “sexy” often, maybe because they would love to hear it sometimes too, but women hear it so much that it sometimes can take a different meaning.

Where to meet tall women ?

If you are very attracted to tall beautiful women and you really want to meet such tall woman of your dreams, you need to start your search as soon as possible. Tall women are hard to find because they are so rare. If you will wait for her just to show up at your door looking for you it might never happen.

Does height matter to women ?

You need to start searching for a woman of your dreams. The more women you will meet the more chance you will find someone you really like. If you have a shy personality and you never pursued women before, it’s time to start now. If you don’t know how to deal with high amount of rejection, you need to practice positive self talk and realize that it’s not a rejection, it’s her missed opportunity. Learn to take leadership in your dating life.
Where to start

Big cities are the best. If you live in a big city you will more likely meet more tall women than anywhere else. If you don’t live in a big city then you can go to a larger nearby city on a weekend or you can move to a big city.

Yes, it’s easier to meet a tall woman in a big city, but it’s also harder to compete with her demands and values. Sometimes women from big cities expect a lot from a potential partner. So, be ready for a challenge. Have a positive outlook on life, look great, have a great job and interesting life. Many women are attracted to men who have interesting and exciting life. Work on that and women will get attracted to you easier. If you have a shy personality and you don’t like to mention your achievements and talk maybe it would be harder for you to attract women. But many women love mysterious men too! Be the best you can be and have faith in your attractiveness and women will start loving you.

Sure. You can try online dating too. You can meet many tall women on dating sites.

You can even choose height, age and other characteristics, but you will need to be cautious because not many people are as honest as you are.

Sometimes it could be harder to meet women online because many women are afraid of online dating. You definitely could meet a great adventurous woman online, so keep trying.

Usually women get a lot more messages than men do, so be persistent in your search, don’t give up and will find a tall beautiful woman.

How to get her attention.

You can get her attention by simply saying hi, and start short conversation with her. Try to get her phone number and tell her you will call her. You can tell her a nice complement, women love complements and this way you will feel less focused on yourself that can make your conversation easier.

As you can see, getting her attention is very easy, just to say hi and start talking. Women love friendly men, so she won’t think anything out of it. If she is not interested in you, don’t worry about it and move on to the next woman