Is 5’9″ tall for a woman ?

Is 5’9″ tall for a woman?

In my opinion, 5’9″ is absolutely perfect height for a woman. It isn’t too short and isn’t average, it’s slightly above average, but not too much.

For example, at being 6ft tall I feel sometimes gigantic and out of place, and way too different from other people.

But at 5’9″ a woman still can be above average and still can stand out, especially, if she decides to wear high heels shoes.

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If I could choose any height, I’d probably pick 5’9″ for myself. Being 6ft tall makes you too unique, too different, it can be good, but sometimes not so much.

Being unique is almost like being a celebrity, some people will love it and embrace it, while others could be put off by it.

Do I enjoy being 6ft tall at all? I really do like how I look, but like every woman, sometimes we wish we would have something that we don’t have.

Like every woman, we often see a room for perfection. Most of the time I do enjoy how I look and very much so, especially when I am home alone. But when I am around people I don’t enjoy my looks as much only because it makes you so different, it’s hard to fit in and you have a tendency to blame it on looks.

I think many women are very self conscious and much more judgmental than men are about looks. Women can see imperfections in themselves and others so much easier. Living with a man for so many years, it’s amazing how little consideration he gives to how he looks. Men have other achievements to be proud of than just being “attractive”.

Being 5’9″ or taller

I really think 5’9″ is such perfect height. You still could be unique at this height and not be too worried if you are too tall.

The main reason why women prefer to be shorter is mostly because they like tall men. Also, tall women assume that short men, probably prefer a shorter woman, so that’s why.

I actually noticed that men don’t care about a woman’s height as much as woman does. I’m not too sure why it’s this way but it is. It’s much harder for a woman to accept much shorter man than it is for a man to accept much taller woman.

This is why being 5’9″ is so perfect because there would be more taller guys for a 5’9″ tall woman than for 6 ft tall woman.

If you are 5’9 and you are a woman, enjoy it very much. So many shorter and taller women would envy you.

But bedsides height, women are more worried about looking feminine or looking pretty or looking younger. If you look young, beautiful and feminine, then you will look great at any height. But the taller you are, the more features will stand out. If you are beautiful, you will look even more beautiful if you are taller.

As far as me, I’m just very unique. I can seem beautiful or not, depending on who looks at me. My beauty isn’t “standard” so to speak. I’m very unique and my uniqueness can either draw people to me or put them off.

Overall I’m alright with my height because I am not looking to impress people anymore. When I was younger and tried to impress others or find a husband it was a bigger worry for me than now. With age comes more peace for sure.

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Tall women with short men

Tall women with short men

Yes, women like short men or tall men and all types of men. Most women prefer a man to be taller because of social expectations but when it comes down whether they like a man or not…his height won’t be the most important quality in her attraction to a man. Men give more importance to “certain look” than women do. I heard many men told me they would date only thin women or said they only get sexually attracted to thin women.

As far as women, I never heard a woman say she gets attracted only to tall men or only to muscular men. Women’s sexuality isn’t as visual, where as in men, visual attraction plays a lot bigger role. If you are a short men, you don’t have to worry about woman’s sexual attraction, it’s more in her mind than in her eyes.

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Tall woman with short men is Sexy!

Yes, tall women with short men look very sexy, it’s so rare and very attractive. You can see many celebrities where a man is a lot shorter than a woman. Look at the pictures of tall men and women in this article “Why do tall women love little men?” It’s so beautiful to see a tall woman with a with a short man. Tall women turn peoples heads who eager to look at them and when a tall woman with much shorter man they turn heads even more.

Many rich and famous men dated very tall women and in our society tall is equal to beauty, model type looking, so no surprise why rich men and go for tall women too. If a man and a woman secure enough in who they are, it won’t matter how tall they are either.

Experience with short men in my life

In my article Dating as a Tall Girl you can read more about my dating experience.

I can tell you it was great to date short men also, girls can easily fall in love with a short man too.

I never felt uncomfortable dating short guys. I always dated many men at that time in my search for my soul mate. Those men put so much effort in getting my attention, asking me out, being so nice and affectionate maybe that’s why I never felt uncomfortable with them.

They made me feel loved, welcomed and appreciated that I was always happy around them.

Usually I think I prefer taller men but when I meet a short man who I really like I could easily forget about all my preferences and expectations.

Short Husband

Maybe you wonder if my husband is a tall man or not. My husband and I are about the same height but I don’t consider him to be tall at all. Mostly, because when we are around people, people usually tell me “Wow, you are so tall!” but they never tell it to my husband even that we are similar height! So, he isn’t tall at all, but it’s o’kay. Very often I look even taller than he is because of my shoes and because I’m a woman. You know, women aren’t expected to be my height… I always thought before I probably would marry a taller man, but I was wrong.

I found so many attractive qualities in him that it wasn’t even a question in my mind whether I want to be with him or not. I married him even that he is not the tallest men I dated. He has unique qualities that I can’t find in anyone. His wonderful character is more important than his lack of height. We have been married for many years already.

My sister is married to a man who is the same height as her as well (she is about 5’9 tall and her husband is similar height also). So, there are many women who want to marry a man that is not taller than her.

Why tall women like Short men

Did you meet tall women who only prefer short men? Height prefference can be such a unique preference that some tall women are looking for. Not all tall women want short men but many do. Did you meet someone who would tell you they like only the certain way or have a certain type of hair color or eye color? If a tall woman had more positive experiences in her life with a shorter men than she will prefer shorter men. If a tall woman was hurt by tall guy then she is more likely to avoid anyone who look like him.

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Women have values

Different women have different values. Some women want only good looking guys, other women want only rich guys, and other women want only short guys. You never know what is her values until you talk to her, spend time with her and learn more about her. Many women have a very specific set of qualities they are looking for. Maybe she can find all her unique qualities in a short guy. If a short men can meet most of her important needs then of course she will choose him.

I noticed more and more women marry shorter men. Not every woman is as tall as I am, but even average height girls are often marry a shorter man. I think it is very beautiful to see a man with a taller woman.

Look at Tom Cruz and Katie Holmes, they are a cute couple, she is taller than he is especially when she is on heels.

If I wear heels then my husband is shorter than me too and we both still look good together.

For some women height is a very important quality in a man and they are specifically looking for only tall men. So, it depends on a woman.

Advice to short men

If you love tall women and you meet a very tall woman, don’t just assume she is looking for tall men. Give her a chance. You don’t know her yet, so maybe she loves shorter guys.

Or maybe her most important qualities in a man isn’t height at all. Take your time and get to know her, you might be pleasantly surprised and you could have a great relationship together!

How recession effects tall women ?

You probably heard many stories how recession and bad economy effects people all over the world. It’s true, time is tough right now for many people. Good economy is so important to all of us. We want to have a good life and never have to worry about money, businesses and other things.

How do tall women feel about recession? Tall women have the same feelings as you do about recession. Tall women maybe even have stronger feelings and attitudes about it for various reasons. Tall woman is any woman above average height. In America average height is about 5’4″. If a woman is at least 5’8″ she could feel very tall comparing to others especially if she loves to wear heels often.

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Shopping for tall women during bad economy

Shopping for tall women is expensive.

From my own experience it is really hard to find anything on sale that is long and can fit me. I really like to shop but shopping for a tall woman can be a very exhausting experience. It is very hard to find pants long enough and thin enough. Most pants in stores can’t fit me. This is why I have to buy expensive jeans and pants. During recessions tall women would want to save their money too as every body else does, but clothes isn’t cheap at any time for a tall woman.

Many stores like to offer sales during recession, but for a tall woman is hard to find any clothes at any time, recession or not. Finding shirts, coats and sweaters can be a challenge too for a tall woman. Tall women have very long arms that would be hard to find clothes for.

Saving tips for tall women

Here are some tips for you if you are a tall woman:

1)Try to shop less

2)Work more or try to get another job

3)Look for sale items. Never say never, sometimes it’s possible to find something on sale even for a very tall woman.

4)Drive used or cheaper car

5)Don’t refuse to get spoiled. Men love to spoil women. If your boyfriend or husband wants to spoil you can let him.

Finding job in recession

It can be hard for a tall woman to find a job too. Many employers are very picky what kind of worker they want to have. If you are a tall woman you will have to follow general advice for all women in finding work. Good communication skills is a must. Great personality is good too and of course it’s better to be smart. All tall women I met in my life were very ambitious and very smart. And of course, keep try until you find a job or get other better ideas how to make money during recession.

Faith during recession

Believe in your strength and have faith in a good future, believe in God. It will help you to overcome any hard times. People can really get used to anything. Look at so many stories about how rich people lost everything and then got back on their feet. Life is beautiful no matter what. It’s all in our mind how we perceive our situation. Find positive in every situation you have. If you need money in your life, it can be a positive thing too, but how?

For example, if you need money it can motivate you to do certain thins and experiment that you wouldn’t have to do if you had lots of money. What is a lot of money is different for each of us. And you can find a lot of positives in any situation. If times are really hard for you it can be a valuable personal growth time that you wouldn’t have experienced in any other situation.

So, be happy and stay positive no matter what!

Where to meet tall women ?

If you are very attracted to tall beautiful women and you really want to meet such tall woman of your dreams, you need to start your search as soon as possible. Tall women are hard to find because they are so rare. If you will wait for her just to show up at your door looking for you it might never happen.

Does height matter to women ?

You need to start searching for a woman of your dreams. The more women you will meet the more chance you will find someone you really like. If you have a shy personality and you never pursued women before, it’s time to start now. If you don’t know how to deal with high amount of rejection, you need to practice positive self talk and realize that it’s not a rejection, it’s her missed opportunity. Learn to take leadership in your dating life.
Where to start

Big cities are the best. If you live in a big city you will more likely meet more tall women than anywhere else. If you don’t live in a big city then you can go to a larger nearby city on a weekend or you can move to a big city.

Yes, it’s easier to meet a tall woman in a big city, but it’s also harder to compete with her demands and values. Sometimes women from big cities expect a lot from a potential partner. So, be ready for a challenge. Have a positive outlook on life, look great, have a great job and interesting life. Many women are attracted to men who have interesting and exciting life. Work on that and women will get attracted to you easier. If you have a shy personality and you don’t like to mention your achievements and talk maybe it would be harder for you to attract women. But many women love mysterious men too! Be the best you can be and have faith in your attractiveness and women will start loving you.

Sure. You can try online dating too. You can meet many tall women on dating sites.

You can even choose height, age and other characteristics, but you will need to be cautious because not many people are as honest as you are.

Sometimes it could be harder to meet women online because many women are afraid of online dating. You definitely could meet a great adventurous woman online, so keep trying.

Usually women get a lot more messages than men do, so be persistent in your search, don’t give up and will find a tall beautiful woman.

How to get her attention.

You can get her attention by simply saying hi, and start short conversation with her. Try to get her phone number and tell her you will call her. You can tell her a nice complement, women love complements and this way you will feel less focused on yourself that can make your conversation easier.

As you can see, getting her attention is very easy, just to say hi and start talking. Women love friendly men, so she won’t think anything out of it. If she is not interested in you, don’t worry about it and move on to the next woman

How tall is too tall for a woman ?

How tall is too tall for a woman it depends on who you ask. If you ask me, I would say the taller the better. If I see a tall woman, anyone who is taller 6’0″ is considered tall or even very tall.

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If you are shorter person then someone who is 5’9″ will be too tall in your opinion.

So, as you can see too tall for a woman would be different for every person. I a man is 5 ft tall, and if he prefers short women, than someone who is 6′ or 6’5″ would be too tall for him. But if a man loves tall women then there wouldn’t be a limit on how tall is too tall for a woman.

Too tall for a woman

If you feel as you are too tall for a woman, you need to know that many tall women feel that. You are not alone if you worry about it. Embrace your height and someone will notice and love you and your height.

Sometimes very short people think that I’m 7ft tall because they can’t estimate well and because I look very tall for a woman. It does surprise me to hear that people think I’m taller than I am but I understand where they are coming from.

If someone thought you are much taller than you are, it doesn’t mean that you too tall for a woman, it’s just that a short person wasn’t around tall people often and isn’t as accurate in estimation as you hoped him to be.

We all have something to worry about…height, looks and more

If you worry you are too tall, you need to remember that every person worries about something. Many people, especially women worry if they look thin or fat or beautiful. I met some women in my life who couldn’t go out without make up because they worried how they look without make up and afraid to be seen like that.

If you are a tall woman, you will get attention from people that will make you feel too tall or uncomfortable because of their questions. Remember that they don’t mean to offend you if they think you are taller.

Conclusion

Be proud to be tall and never think that you too tall. Women have right to be tall and there shouldn’t height restrictions for any person.

Do tall women have big feet ?

Generally, the taller a woman, the bigger her feet usually are. But, not all tall women have big feet. I have met women who were similar to my height but who had much smaller feet than I have. I was very surprised about such observations because I thought women of the sameheight would always have the same feet size.

Two women of the same height will have different shoe size…

If a woman is taller than 6 ft, she is more likely to have big feet. What big seems to you can be different when perceived by a taller woman.

For example, my feet shoe size is 11 and I don’t think they are big at all. When someone finds out my shoe size they usually say “Wow! Your shoe size is 11! They don’t look so big!” By the reaction that I receive, seems like people think that womens’ shoe size 11 is big!

More about big feet. Tall women big feet

If you are a very short person, then you would think shoe size 11 is big. If you are a very tall woman or a man, then you would think shoe size 11 is actually small or average.

What do I think about my feet? I think my feet are just normal and perfect the way they are. I can’t imagine having any other feet than I have now. They are very long and have very long toes.

I can even move my long toes if I want to.

always have enough space for them.

Big feet fantasy

Some men are attracted to women’s feet. I never heard women to be attracted to man’s feet or anyone’s feet but many men find womens feet very attractive and even sexy. I don’t completely understand what feet have to do with being sexy, but many men associate feet, shoes, pantyhose with sexiness.

If you notice someone really admires your feet or looks at your shoes often, he probably has feet fetish. Some men even have requirements to find a woman with perfect feet. What is perfect feet is different for everyone.

I’m sure my feet look perfect to someone. My husband never looked or admired my feet though, he isn’t attracted to such kind of things. I’m sure it would be fun if he thought I have the cutest feet ever.

Having sexy feet maybe has something to do with wearing high heels. Many men love women in high heels. If you have shoes with open toes, it can be very attractive too.

Women love shoes and men love watching women in beautiful shoes too. There are many styles that would be great for each woman. If you are very tall, it would be harder to find shoes over size 12, so check out online websites that selling shoes and women’s clothes.

Shopping for shoes

I have to admit that it would be a lot easier to shop for shoes if I had smaller feet. Many stores don’t carry womens’ shoe size 11 at all. I have less choice of shoes to buy but it’s o’kay. I was always able to find nice shoes to wear, no matter how hard my search can be sometimes.

Also, I can’t find shoes on sale very often either. Tall women don’t have that much choice when we are shopping. If I was taller, finding shoes would be even harder, so I need to appreciate the fact that I can find shoes for my feet at all.

Do big feet smell more?

I don’t think any feet smell more than others. I never tried to smell mine, as long as you wash your feet regularly you will be alright.

Also, I have long fingers and toes, long legs, long arms, etc. So, yes, tall women should have bigger feet too. Everything about me is very long and my feet are too.

My feet and legs are so long that they are hanging out off my bed sometimes. Maybe some day I will get a very long bed, but for right now, my long feet don’t

I’m tall and awkward

Many people describe tall women as elegant and beautiful…but in reality we feel more tall and awkward than elegant and beautiful. Being very tall is very confusing. Did you hear expression “I’m so tall that I feel like a boy?” many teenagers feel this way growing up. Most of my life I was very tall and very thin. Most of the girls in my school were very well developed and looked “round-ish” and totally different than what I was. I don’t know why I am the way I am, maybe to help others who look different.

Being tall and lanky was a big part of my life. I’m still tall and I’m very thin.

I gained quit a bit of weight since when I was a teenager, but I still look thin and considered underweight for my extreme height. I just look tall and thin. Being tall and thin does make you feel awkward, especially when you are around short people.

I’m so tall that I feel like a boy

How many of you felt like a boy when you were growing up? Isn’t it a reason why girls wear make up, dress up sexy is to distinguish yourself from the opposite sex?

Sometimes I still have moments that I feel like a man. I had at least a couple times in my life when people thought I’m a man when they couldn’t see my face.

When you are a woman, you don’t really want to be referred as “sir” or something like that.

When you are my height, you are taller than most men and women. When you never see a woman taller than you, you could easily start associating with men and feel more as one of them. As I got older I got more realistic about the way I look and feel more feminine, but there are moments in my life when I feel big and more like a man than a lady.

People could say “wow, look at you, how come you can feel like that?” I don’t know. I guess it’s my confusing feelings about being so extremely tall.

I know most women have body image issues. Most women I met had problems with weight and staying thin. When you are a tall woman, you can weigh more because of your height.

I could gain 10-20 pounds easily and no one will even notice it. Even if I would gain 20 pounds I would still look thin to most people.

So, being tall does give you some advantages. If you feel tall and awkward thinks about positive sides of your height and learn to appreciate what you have.

If you are very short, then appreciate your short height too. I think I would love to be short because I would love to be around tall people all the time. So, every height has advantages. If you are very tall or short or any height, find something you like about your height or shape and enjoy your life, because “you” is the biggest part of your life.