Dating tips from a tall girl

First of all, you need to be clear with your desires, expectations and know what you want. You need to know if you want a short term relationship, a long term relationship, friendship or marriage. Most people want to find a soul mate, life time partner, but many people just want to stay single forever. You need to be honest with yourself and with your partner too. Never mislead anyone if you are not ready to commit but your partner wants a commitement.

Know what you want from your partner.

You need to know your expectations for her/his looks, lifestyle, activities and other good or bad habits. You also need to have realistic expectations. Many people never marry because they have so many expectations that no one person can fulfill it all. You need to decide what are your most important expectations.

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I know many men want a beautiful and thin woman, but you need to be realistic and set realistic expectations. It’s o’kay to have desires but don’t live just in your fantasy land. You also need to know what you can offer to a beautiful woman.

Date

If you don’t date or don’t go out, you will have less chances to meet your special someone. Try online dating first and see if you can find someone you like, it would be easy start.

Be polite

Women love men who are polite and show appreciation. Don’t be afraid to be a nice guy, not every one wants to be teased and challenged in that way. Many men get dating advice to tease women and challenge them but very often they come across as rude people who women try to avoid. You can try your rude jokes or tricks but if a woman doesn’t react well to them, you better quit and find a different approach before you lost her.

Be positive

Most people would tell you be confident, but I’ll tell you be positive. When someone tries to advice you to be confident you could get confused because most of us think we are confident. Only other peoples feedback gives us doubts about our confidence. So, you better try to be positive than trying to be confident, because trying to become a positive person is a more specific advice and what you can do about it.

Positive thoughts can make you more positive, but also exercise and loving relationships.

If you don’t have any loving relationships in your life, then focus on loving yourself and receive God’s love, it should improve your mood greatly.

Try to notice what good you have in your life too because so many people would love to have what you have, be appreciative.

Spend money

Be reasonable how much money you can spend during your dating.

Women love when you spend money on them, it shows them you are serious and generous. Women love men who have money and can afford to spend on them. If you are on a tight budget, there are many women who just want love and don’t care about your money or your success, maybe she even would want to support you! It would be a lot harder to find such a woman but it’s possible. I know a few cases where a woman is a breadwinner and a husband is a stay home husband.

Tell compliments

Most men always tell many complements, so you probably don’t have to worry about it and you know what to tell to a woman. Try to tell her a unique complement. Most men say “You are very beautiful!” it’s nice but your girl probably hears it every day many times a day. Come up with something unique that she didn’t hear from anyone yet. She will remember your words longer and you will stand out in her mind. Women love complements!

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How to be confident as a tall girl

First of all, you have to realize that some people look more confident than others naturally. If confidence wasn’t your gift from nature, then you can work on it.

Also, you need to know that feeling confident and being perceived confident are two different qualities.

For example, I always felt confident about myself no matter what but people didn’t always perceived me as confident. It was a surprise to me when I finally realized it.

So, what do you want? Do you want to feel confident or do you want to be perceived confident or both? Most of us, we want it all.

Your looks

If you are a very thin woman, if you have a soft voice and look very young, it could be harder for you to be perceived as confident ordominant woman. Not all of us have dominant physical characteristics. I remember one interesting observation…I was watching a man talking to a teenage boy…and a boy felt uncomfortable and told him “Don’t yell at me! You are yelling at me!” where as a man was surprised and said he was talking in his normal voice.

So, this man realized he scared a boy, so he started whispering to him to communicate with him. Isn’t it interesting how some people appear confident and more dominant without even trying? If I could describe that man, he was very tall and had very loud and deep voice.

So, if you are a cute skinny young girl it could be a challenge for you in some way. I’m going to give you a few tips to make you look more confident.

More tips to look confident:

  • Wear make up and high heels. Women who wear a make up appear more confident to people than women without make up.
  • Dress best as you can, first impression matters and your looks and your dress are important too.
  • Wear high heels if you like, women in high heels appear more confident too. Even if you are very tall, high heels will make you look confident too.
  • Observe how you speak and how you move. Ask others for advice how you should talk or move in order to project confidence.
  • Associate and be around confident people. People will perceive you more confident too if you associate with confident people.
  • Experiment what works for you. What works for you, doesn’t always work for everybody else. Try to find out your personal strategy.Feeling ConfidentFeeling confident is a lot easier to feel confident than to be perceived confident. If you want to feel confident, all you have to do is to have positive self talk. Tell yourself you are the best looking woman and the most interesting person in the room. It will help you to project some confidence too. Feeling confident will make you feel better in the long run.If you can, try both, feel confident and look confident.

    Ask yourself why you want to look confident. Maybe people love you the way you are and they wouldn’t want you to change?

    Don’t over do it though. You have a chance to be perceived too confident and people would avoid you too. Not everyone one loves overly confident people. Maybe people love you the way you are and you they don’t want to see powerful woman in you yet. Being confident is a good thing, but if you are trying too hard, you could send a wrong message about who you are.

    We all choose at some point who we are and personal truth that we hold about ourselves. Believe the best about yourself and you will get in a right direction.

    Speak positively to yourself when you look in the mirror, when you are around people. Confident and not so confident person have different point of view in the same situation. Decide you want to be confident and brave woman. Don’t listen to those who are trying to convince you otherwise. Hold your personal belief unshakable and stable. Everything starts from just a belief.

    You can tell yourself that your height is great and it is part of who you are. If you can’t change it, embrace it. People can be attractive if they are tall or short, confident or less confident, it can all be attractive to someone.

    I want to help you to accept yourself and love yourself. You need to have a great relationship with yourself first. Being tall isn’t easy, as being short isn’t easy or if you have other issues that you have to deal with.

    How to get peace of mind about your height

    None of us can’t be liked by everybody. Even biggest celebrities aren’t liked or accepted by everyone. If you have less confidence because of that, remember nobody is perfect. Even the most beautiful men or women aren’t completely satisfied with their looks. So, if you don’t feel confident sometimes it’s o’kay too.

    I met some very confident people in my life, and I was so surprised when they shared their insecurities and their worries. I would never guess they don’t feel confident, because they looked confident and almost perfect.

    For example, many very beautiful girls are affraid to leave the house without make up because they think they look bad. I was very surprised when I heard this, because I thought those women were completely flawless and completely perfect.

    So, next time when you think you aren’t confident enough, remember that some people would think that you are great. Some people would even wish they would look like you or had some great qualities about you.

    How to look confident if you are treated badly

    Most of us have some idea how we want to be treated. If you are a tall girl and you think you don’t look confident enough because of your height, think about what made you to believe that. Maybe someone told you that you don’t look confident?

    For example, when a girl slouches, everybody thinks she does it because she is trying to hide her height…but when a short girl slouches nobody noticed or even cares about it.

    Another example, when a tall girl doesn’t wear high heels, some people think it’s because tall girl is not confident about her height, but if a short girl doesn’t wear high heels nobody really cares why she doesn’t wear them.

    When you are very tall, people could have such prejudices and could judge you unfairly. Is it fair? No it isn’t. Being tall is like being celebrity, you will get noticed more often, but it can be negative attention or judgment too.

    We don’t choose to be tall, we are born this way. Have a positive view on life. You will encounter sometimes negative judgmental people, but believe people are nice and even they say something “strange” sometimes, it’s because they don’t know any better. Beleive people are nice and they are good to you. Even if they said something that can make you upset or irritated, maybe they didn’t know it would upset you.

    For example, many tall women get tired of tall comments they always get, but maybe people who say them didn’t mean to upset you but were just impressed by your looks. Try to find positive in every situation and it will help you to be more confident.

    Tall girl or a young woman could be very confused about her own body image when she receives so much attention and comments. Be happy that you are different. Learn to love yourself first no matter what someone says. People judge others because of personal insecurities, so even if you were your “perfect self” someone would still try find faults if they want in anything. Brush off bad comments and remember the good ones. Focus on being grateful and happy about your looks and who you are.