Why short men are attracted to tall women ?

Short men do get attracted to tall women. Did you hear saying “Opposites attract” it is true. Just because short men and a tall woman look a lot different they still can have an attraction toward each other. I’m a tall woman and I was attracted to short men before.

As far as attraction it is no different if I was attracted to a tall man. Many men are taught by our society that they have to be taller but in reality who really cares? It’s o’kay to be attracted to a taller woman if you are both happy.

Sometimes we decide what we prefer in our perfect mate as far as height and looks. Many of our characteristics come from our own subconscious and conscious needs. If you can meet most of them in your tall woman that is great.


Tall women and sexuality

Tall women are sexy. People are attracted to tall women because they look beautiful, sexy and elegant. Many get attracted to tall women because they look so unusual and exotic.

It is so rare to meet a tall woman and if you do spend time with her you would feel as a lucky guy with a very interesting experience.

Other men are looking for a dominant looks or personality in a woman they believe tall woman will meet their needs.

Sometimes men had certain experiences happened in their youth and they feel always attracted to tall women since then. And other men get attracted to tall women because they like her personality and she is a great match to him in every way.

My personal experience

My husband isn’t taller than me, so maybe you wonder how we got attracted to each other? First of all, he never dated any tall women before me. It wasn’t that he was looking for a very tall woman or a model.

It just happened that I liked him and I was nice to him, so he fall in love with my looks and personality. He loves me to be so tall and thin and beautiful. Not everyone thinks I am a beautiful person but it’s important to me that he does.

If I was taller or shorter he would still love me as much. He loves me being me. I liked him a lot too that’s why I was very happy to marry him. I’m still very happy to be married.

He is smart and understanding and can meet most of my needs. Very often I look taller than he is especially if I wear heels. He never gets intimidated by my height, because he is a very secure person. He loves me being so tall and beautiful.


Can a tall girl fall in love with a short guy ?

The answer is YES, a tall girl can fall in love with a short guy. I am a very tall girl and I was in love with a short guy before. If you make her feel good, if you make her happy, of course she can fall in love with you.

Surprisingly, only love isn’t everything. You need to find out all her priorities in her perfect partner. If your views on life will be the same, if you have similar goals, morals, and hopes for the future, she will be able to fall in love even easier.

Different women have different criteria for the perfect man. If you can meet most of her needs then you both would be very happy together.


Maybe she is attracted to a man that can appreciate her, tell her complements, make her feel good, has certain beliefs in God or something else. Or maybe she wants rich, good looking guy. Women don’t have the same values, what is a value to one woman maybe isn’t important to another woman.

How to make a tall woman to fall in love with a short guy

You need to make her feel good so she would be interested in you. Find what she likes, find out her values and find out what she wants. If you can give her what she wants, then of course she will be yours. However, there are no guarantees if she will love you or not. We can’t force people to love us. We can help this process or ruin chances, but if she is not into you, then move on to another girl.

Treat her with respect and care. Women love to feel loved and be cherished. Also, be realistic, if you are 20 years older, aren’t good looking, and have other problems there may be a lot less chance for her to fall in love. But if you are a normal guy that most girls want then of course go for it and find out if you can have a great future together. And if you are older or have problems, just look for a girl that will accept you the way you are.

Should you try to date a taller girl if you are short?

Sure. Why not? You could have a great time anyway. Even if you wouldn’t fall in love with each other you could still have a good time and have great memories. Take it slow, learn about each other and maybe some day she will fall in love with you as much as you are in love with her.

Date all women of different looks. You never know to whom you could be attracted until you start dating and experience different relationships. And remember if you tried everything you could and a girl can’t love you, maybe there are many other girls who would love a short guy. Move to a big city if you have to, there you could meet more women and choose the one you love.

Sexy tall women

Sexy Tall Women

Sometimes people are finding my website using keywords “sexy tall women” or “nude tall women”, it was a surprise to me and I decided to write an article and mention what I think about it.

Men have very creative mind to type in search something like this…I definitely would never think to type “nude men” or anything of this nature in search. So, I’m surprised and even glad people have very strong interest in tall women.

This website contains “no nude images” but only regular pictures and my blog. If you read my article life as a tall girl you will notice that other than strange comments about my height I received in my life, I didn’t feel people admiration of particularly my size. After I started this website I realized how much more people have genuine interest in tall women.


If someone types tall nude women it definitely shows there is even more interest in tall women than just “how tall are you?” curiosity. I’m actually glad people find tall women sexy and want to explore more about it.

Sexy is beautiful

Tall sexy women are beautiful whether they are dressed or not. When I see myself in the mirror I like the way, I look, and sometimes I don’t even realize that some people want to look at and admire tall beautiful womens’ bodies. I don’t promote nudity in any way but I’m glad that some people find it beautiful and sexy.

If some women are reading my article, whether you are tall or short, I hope you will realize how beautiful you are and men love to watch us.

What “Sexy” means

Term “Sexy” is so much more broad now days that I have to explain what it means to me and other people. Words “tall sexy women” aren’t just about nudity. I noticed when men complement women “you are sexy” they mean “you are beautiful” because there were times in my life when men would tell me “you look sexy” and I would think they meant I look like a slut or hooker, so I was offended. Later, I realized that many men when they say “sexy” they don’t mean to offend a woman but complement her. They mean it more like they like a woman and trying to give her a compliment.

Men love to use words “sexy” often, maybe because they would love to hear it sometimes too, but women hear it so much that it sometimes can take a different meaning.

How recession effects tall women ?

You probably heard many stories how recession and bad economy effects people all over the world. It’s true, time is tough right now for many people. Good economy is so important to all of us. We want to have a good life and never have to worry about money, businesses and other things.

How do tall women feel about recession? Tall women have the same feelings as you do about recession. Tall women maybe even have stronger feelings and attitudes about it for various reasons. Tall woman is any woman above average height. In America average height is about 5’4″. If a woman is at least 5’8″ she could feel very tall comparing to others especially if she loves to wear heels often.


Shopping for tall women during bad economy

Shopping for tall women is expensive.

From my own experience it is really hard to find anything on sale that is long and can fit me. I really like to shop but shopping for a tall woman can be a very exhausting experience. It is very hard to find pants long enough and thin enough. Most pants in stores can’t fit me. This is why I have to buy expensive jeans and pants. During recessions tall women would want to save their money too as every body else does, but clothes isn’t cheap at any time for a tall woman.

Many stores like to offer sales during recession, but for a tall woman is hard to find any clothes at any time, recession or not. Finding shirts, coats and sweaters can be a challenge too for a tall woman. Tall women have very long arms that would be hard to find clothes for.

Saving tips for tall women

Here are some tips for you if you are a tall woman:

1)Try to shop less

2)Work more or try to get another job

3)Look for sale items. Never say never, sometimes it’s possible to find something on sale even for a very tall woman.

4)Drive used or cheaper car

5)Don’t refuse to get spoiled. Men love to spoil women. If your boyfriend or husband wants to spoil you can let him.

Finding job in recession

It can be hard for a tall woman to find a job too. Many employers are very picky what kind of worker they want to have. If you are a tall woman you will have to follow general advice for all women in finding work. Good communication skills is a must. Great personality is good too and of course it’s better to be smart. All tall women I met in my life were very ambitious and very smart. And of course, keep try until you find a job or get other better ideas how to make money during recession.

Faith during recession

Believe in your strength and have faith in a good future, believe in God. It will help you to overcome any hard times. People can really get used to anything. Look at so many stories about how rich people lost everything and then got back on their feet. Life is beautiful no matter what. It’s all in our mind how we perceive our situation. Find positive in every situation you have. If you need money in your life, it can be a positive thing too, but how?

For example, if you need money it can motivate you to do certain thins and experiment that you wouldn’t have to do if you had lots of money. What is a lot of money is different for each of us. And you can find a lot of positives in any situation. If times are really hard for you it can be a valuable personal growth time that you wouldn’t have experienced in any other situation.

So, be happy and stay positive no matter what!

Are tall women a Fetish ?

Personally, I don’t consider attraction to tall women as a fetish. If it was, would be there “tall men fetish” or “rich men fetish” or “beautiful women fetish” too? So, just because you find tall women attractive and beautiful it doesn’t always mean it’s a fetish.


You just love tall women. Some men or women prefer only blond and blue eye partner, would it be a fetish too? Then anything that you like would be called a fetish, that’s why I don’t think that tall women is a fetish. I really like to see tall women too but I don’t have any sexual feelings toward any women, so obviously it is not a fetish.

What is Fetish?

You can find Web Definition of fetish Here. It says a form of sexual desire to object, item of clothing or part of body. So, as you can see, tall woman is not just a part of body but the whole body and personality too.

How tall women can be associated with fetish?

Some men have a fantasy about being protected by a tall woman or being told what to do. I think they fantasize about dominatrix or mistress. If it’s a sexual thing for them, then it’s a fetish. This website is about being tall and my life but not about dominating any men. So, domination and submission can be a form of fetish to some people.

More about Fetish

Sexuality is a very complex part of our lives. If you love tall women or short women it’s not a fetish, you just have prefference for certain type of women. Fetish is a lot more complex and associated with a strong sexual desire to a certain thing, object or a part of body. If you love your tall woman and sexually attracted to her, it’s just normal and it isn’t fetish.

Most of us fall in love with a whole personality than just one part of her body or just one part of his or her personality. Many men extremely attracted to big breasts, or small breasts, which could be a fetish too if it’s the only thing you can feel a sexual desire.

There is a fine line to distinguish what is fetish and what is not, it depends on how important it is to you and your sexuality.

By marilynnlee

Where to meet tall women ?

If you are very attracted to tall beautiful women and you really want to meet such tall woman of your dreams, you need to start your search as soon as possible. Tall women are hard to find because they are so rare. If you will wait for her just to show up at your door looking for you it might never happen.

Does height matter to women ?

You need to start searching for a woman of your dreams. The more women you will meet the more chance you will find someone you really like. If you have a shy personality and you never pursued women before, it’s time to start now. If you don’t know how to deal with high amount of rejection, you need to practice positive self talk and realize that it’s not a rejection, it’s her missed opportunity. Learn to take leadership in your dating life.
Where to start

Big cities are the best. If you live in a big city you will more likely meet more tall women than anywhere else. If you don’t live in a big city then you can go to a larger nearby city on a weekend or you can move to a big city.

Yes, it’s easier to meet a tall woman in a big city, but it’s also harder to compete with her demands and values. Sometimes women from big cities expect a lot from a potential partner. So, be ready for a challenge. Have a positive outlook on life, look great, have a great job and interesting life. Many women are attracted to men who have interesting and exciting life. Work on that and women will get attracted to you easier. If you have a shy personality and you don’t like to mention your achievements and talk maybe it would be harder for you to attract women. But many women love mysterious men too! Be the best you can be and have faith in your attractiveness and women will start loving you.

Sure. You can try online dating too. You can meet many tall women on dating sites.

You can even choose height, age and other characteristics, but you will need to be cautious because not many people are as honest as you are.

Sometimes it could be harder to meet women online because many women are afraid of online dating. You definitely could meet a great adventurous woman online, so keep trying.

Usually women get a lot more messages than men do, so be persistent in your search, don’t give up and will find a tall beautiful woman.

How to get her attention.

You can get her attention by simply saying hi, and start short conversation with her. Try to get her phone number and tell her you will call her. You can tell her a nice complement, women love complements and this way you will feel less focused on yourself that can make your conversation easier.

As you can see, getting her attention is very easy, just to say hi and start talking. Women love friendly men, so she won’t think anything out of it. If she is not interested in you, don’t worry about it and move on to the next woman

What should woman wear if she is tall ?

What should a tall woman wear is a tough question for any tall woman. You need to decide if you want to look good for men or women. Also, take into consideration if you want emphasize your tall height or try to hide it or if it doesn’t matter to you as long as you feel comfortable in certain look.


What to wear to attract men

As a tall woman you maybe want to attract men. Men love sexy clothes on women. Don’t over do it though. The general rule is you have a short dress you should be covered on top and if your dress is open at top it should longer at the bottom. Men love sexy clothes on you that make your feel comfortable, confident and sexy.

One or two colors is best. Don’t over do many colors. Dark colors can make you look thinner and white or light colors can make you appear younger.

Choose clothing that is good for the touch, men love touch women. You want to make him think about enjoying touching you even if he doesn’t touch you.

Wear skirts. Yes, tall women look good in skirts. You can wear very short skirts if you are younger or you can wear longer skirts if you are older. Men love skirts on women because not many women wear them very often and because it gives them something to think and fantasize if they wish.


Men love to see long legs especially legs of a tall woman. Wearing skirts and short shorts would be great to show your beautiful long legs.

If you want to look taller or sexy you can definitely wear heels. Many men love high heels on a woman. It’s a fantasy of many men to see women in high heels. Other men love to see woman’s toes and high heels shoes with open toes can be great to attract such men.

Whatever you decide to wear, it’s more important how you wear it. Use your body language to emphasize the great body and great clothes that you have. Men are much more attracted to personality and flirtatious body language than just clothes. Smile and be friendly. Men love to see a woman who smiles and likes them.

What to wear to attract women

I don’t mean to attract women in a sexual way, but in a way to look good to them.

If you want to look good for women, start dressing as one of them. You want to look like one of them start dressing as they do and you will fit in. If you don’t dress for anyone, men or women, then enjoy your own personal dressing style style.

If you dress for women in could be even more interesting because so many interesting fashions. Most men don’t care about fashion as long as woman looks sexy and desirable, but dressing for women you explore with different fashions and styles.

How tall is too tall for a woman ?

How tall is too tall for a woman it depends on who you ask. If you ask me, I would say the taller the better. If I see a tall woman, anyone who is taller 6’0″ is considered tall or even very tall.


If you are shorter person then someone who is 5’9″ will be too tall in your opinion.

So, as you can see too tall for a woman would be different for every person. I a man is 5 ft tall, and if he prefers short women, than someone who is 6′ or 6’5″ would be too tall for him. But if a man loves tall women then there wouldn’t be a limit on how tall is too tall for a woman.

Too tall for a woman

If you feel as you are too tall for a woman, you need to know that many tall women feel that. You are not alone if you worry about it. Embrace your height and someone will notice and love you and your height.

Sometimes very short people think that I’m 7ft tall because they can’t estimate well and because I look very tall for a woman. It does surprise me to hear that people think I’m taller than I am but I understand where they are coming from.

If someone thought you are much taller than you are, it doesn’t mean that you too tall for a woman, it’s just that a short person wasn’t around tall people often and isn’t as accurate in estimation as you hoped him to be.

We all have something to worry about…height, looks and more

If you worry you are too tall, you need to remember that every person worries about something. Many people, especially women worry if they look thin or fat or beautiful. I met some women in my life who couldn’t go out without make up because they worried how they look without make up and afraid to be seen like that.

If you are a tall woman, you will get attention from people that will make you feel too tall or uncomfortable because of their questions. Remember that they don’t mean to offend you if they think you are taller.


Be proud to be tall and never think that you too tall. Women have right to be tall and there shouldn’t height restrictions for any person.

How tall is too tall to wear heels ?

There is no specific limit how tall is too tall for a woman to wear heels. Each woman can decide what she prefers. Some very tall women who are 6ft are comfortable wearing heels, but also very short women are happy in flats too. Just because you are tall it doesn’t mean that you should or shouldn’t wear heels.

Many people judge tall women harshly whether she is wearing or not wearing heels.


For example, when a tall woman wears flats, some people would think she wears flats because she is not confident with her height, but when a short woman wears flats, people think she wears flats because she likes them.

So, if you are tall you are better off to wear heels, but if you don’t care what anyone thinks then you can wear flats too.

There are so much information on the internet why tall women should wear heels. I think tall women shouldn’t anything, but do what they want. You can wear heels if you like shoes and you love heels and you also can wear flats if you love them. Just because people say tall women should wear heels isn’t a requirement but a suggestion and encouragement.

Decide for yourself

Just because someone says you should or shouldn’t wear heels, don’t make them influence you. You know yourself better. If you want to wear your high heels, then wear them. If you want to wear flats or tennis shoes you can wear them too. Find what you are comfortable with, because at the end of the day people will remember your great personality but particularly what you were wearing.

If you decided to wear heels, then be confident with your decision. No matter what you will wear, some people would always find to criticize something or talk about, so don’t get influenced by others.

If you decided wear flats, be confident with your decision too no matter what others think. People can think anything they want but it’s only up to you how you decide to live your life.

Tall women don’t have to wear heels as much as short women don’t have to wear heels. Be happy, be comfortable with what you do.

I was wearing high heels when I was younger, I dressed sexier back then too. As I got older, the looks aren’t that important especially after you get married and settle down. I personally, don’t mind if someone wants to wear heels everyday, I just don’t wear heels as much anymore. I feel beautiful and comfortable in any kind of shoes and I hope all women will feel beautiful no matter what she decides to wear.

Your decision also could depend on your circle of friends, if they wear high heels often, you are more likely to wear them too. The current fashion style would influence you too, if it’s popular to wear heels of flats now. So, you have a lot to consider for yourself. But remember just because you are tall, there are no rules whether you should or shouldn’t wear heels.

How short do you have to be to be a midget ?

Recently, I cam across a great website ChaCha you can type anything and get an answer. It says you have to be 4’10” or under to be considered a midget. Personally, I’m not sure how tall a midget should be and different people have different opinion about it.

Also, why do we have to call people “midgets”, why don’t we have just short people and tall people. If short people are midgets, then how would you call a tall person? There isn’t a such term as “giant” yet…about tall people. In America maybe some very short people would be considered a midget but in other countries like Mexico, China, Japan and etc, 4’10” maybe would be considered a normal height.


My mother in law is only 5’0″ tall, so she is not a midget but very close to it, I will ask her if there are any short people in the family too.

Tall people complain so often about the attention they get for being tall, but short people probably get as many comments if not even more…

More about short people

I will try to write about short people too, because we all have the same problem. Tall or short, we all get attention and comments about height. Being too tall and being too short is very similar in the concept of it and how society treats us.

Many short men admire tall women and love tall women too.

So, we have more similar than different about height and the way we feel.

I think midget are even more rare than tall people. I met some very tall people in my life but I can’t remember if I ever saw a midget. I saw midgets on tv, but in real life I didn’t meet them so often.

Being a midget it would be even more challenge in every day life than for a very tall person. It would be hard to reach to anything, would be hard to drive a car, shop in a supermarket and etc…

There are very interesting similarities and differences in being very short or very tall person.