Is pregnancy different for tall women ?

Is pregnancy different for tall women? In my opinion, the biggest difference about pregnancy for a tall woman is the way she looks, everything else is unique for each individual. Every woman will have different and unique experience with her pregnancy.

Tall woman’s belly would look slightly smaller than on a shorter woman. Just because tall women have bigger torso, it’s easier to hide baby in there.

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As far as feelings and being uncomfortable, every woman is different and she will have her own thoughts about what she feels. Since most pregnant women gain a lot of weight, it is harder on a woman’s body.

I had much harder time walking and doing simple things being 35 lb heavier than usual. It was the only time in my life where I had to follow my husband and complain that he walks way too fast.

Being pregnant is uncomfortable for the most part. During pregnancy it was also the only time when I felt hot all the time. I had to turn on air conditioner quite often, especially at night, because I felt constantly hot.

Being pregnant is scary for any woman, and especially approaching a child birth. To my surprise I had dilation faster and less painful than most women. I was dilated up to 6 cm before my water broke and started contractions. Most women experience pain even at 2 cm. So, I don’t know if it’s because I’m tall or because I’m just unique and different as any other woman.

A baby was born with weight 8.8 lb which is quite big, considering that everyone was telling me that I will have small baby because my belly looks so small. I guess I had more space to hide in me.

I look tall. I gained 35 lb with my pregnancy and because of it I had bigger cheeks on my face, bigger thighs as well and larger feet. My feet were swollen, but likely it was summer, so I didn’t really have to buy any new shoes.

Most people thought I looked skinny being pregnant, but when I looked in the mirror I have never seen myself being so big. So, to others I looked really skinny but I could definitely notice a difference in my look for sure.

Being pregnant isn’t something I would ever want to experience ever again. It makes you feel uncomfortable and unattractive, but some women I heard enjoy it. I didn’t find any joy in the way I looked or felt during pregnancy, it was too many changes and stressful, but it was worth the effort. It was a sacrifice on my part but well worth it.

When you are pregnant it seems like it takes too long and almost seems like it’s forever, but soon enough and this will pass as well. So, don’t worry too much, live your life as comfortably as you can and soon enough it will be all over.

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Is 5’9″ tall for a woman ?

Is 5’9″ tall for a woman?

In my opinion, 5’9″ is absolutely perfect height for a woman. It isn’t too short and isn’t average, it’s slightly above average, but not too much.

For example, at being 6ft tall I feel sometimes gigantic and out of place, and way too different from other people.

But at 5’9″ a woman still can be above average and still can stand out, especially, if she decides to wear high heels shoes.

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If I could choose any height, I’d probably pick 5’9″ for myself. Being 6ft tall makes you too unique, too different, it can be good, but sometimes not so much.

Being unique is almost like being a celebrity, some people will love it and embrace it, while others could be put off by it.

Do I enjoy being 6ft tall at all? I really do like how I look, but like every woman, sometimes we wish we would have something that we don’t have.

Like every woman, we often see a room for perfection. Most of the time I do enjoy how I look and very much so, especially when I am home alone. But when I am around people I don’t enjoy my looks as much only because it makes you so different, it’s hard to fit in and you have a tendency to blame it on looks.

I think many women are very self conscious and much more judgmental than men are about looks. Women can see imperfections in themselves and others so much easier. Living with a man for so many years, it’s amazing how little consideration he gives to how he looks. Men have other achievements to be proud of than just being “attractive”.

Being 5’9″ or taller

I really think 5’9″ is such perfect height. You still could be unique at this height and not be too worried if you are too tall.

The main reason why women prefer to be shorter is mostly because they like tall men. Also, tall women assume that short men, probably prefer a shorter woman, so that’s why.

I actually noticed that men don’t care about a woman’s height as much as woman does. I’m not too sure why it’s this way but it is. It’s much harder for a woman to accept much shorter man than it is for a man to accept much taller woman.

This is why being 5’9″ is so perfect because there would be more taller guys for a 5’9″ tall woman than for 6 ft tall woman.

If you are 5’9 and you are a woman, enjoy it very much. So many shorter and taller women would envy you.

But bedsides height, women are more worried about looking feminine or looking pretty or looking younger. If you look young, beautiful and feminine, then you will look great at any height. But the taller you are, the more features will stand out. If you are beautiful, you will look even more beautiful if you are taller.

As far as me, I’m just very unique. I can seem beautiful or not, depending on who looks at me. My beauty isn’t “standard” so to speak. I’m very unique and my uniqueness can either draw people to me or put them off.

Overall I’m alright with my height because I am not looking to impress people anymore. When I was younger and tried to impress others or find a husband it was a bigger worry for me than now. With age comes more peace for sure.

How to kiss a tall girl

Kissing can be the most intimate and awkward for both of you. If you wonder how to kiss a tall girl, what do you really worry about? Do you worry that you won’t be able to reach her because she is so tall or do you worry about finding appropriate moment to do it?

The first and most important rule is to try not to shock her with your hard attempts. The simplest and easiest test how she feels about you is to see if she wants to touch you or if she likes you touch her.

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It would be a good start that will proceed to kissing as well. If she is enjoying you touching her and doesn’t run away in fear, then you could proceed to kissing.

If you are really worried whether you should kiss her or not, then simply ask her, it would ease a lot of your fears. Not many women are comfortable with kissing, especially if you haven’t been in a long term relationship.

Some women prefer to kiss someone they really trust or see future with. So, there is always possibility that she might not be as easy going as far as kissing as you are. So, be respectful, look for cues and if you aren’t sure then simply ask her.

Should you stand, sit or lay down for your kiss? Well, it’s up to you, but the most important is to find the most romantic moment. If this moment while you are standing, it’s fine, if this most romantic moment is while you are sitting or laying down then try it too.

It doesn’t matter the technique but it matters the moment and passion of you two.

Kissing as expression of love and care

You have to care about your girl a lot to kiss her. If your woman trusts you and wants you, she will enjoy kissing with you so much more.

Women do love to kiss, but very often they don’t particularly know what they want. So, sometimes you just have to take charge and if you want to kiss her, then pursue it. Kissing can be the most exciting and the most memorable moment for you two.

In my experience, honestly, usually I had no idea when a man wanted to kiss me. If she always gives you just cheek, you simply either have to be more aggressive or straightforward about your intentions. Just tell her you want to kiss her and if she wants it too, she will agree and she will let you kiss her.

It doesn’t really matter how you kiss and where you kiss, but it matters if you both care about each other. Eventually, you will both figure out the most comfortable style for both of you. All you have to do is just try and kiss more!

After your first kiss, you can kiss her often and enjoy. Practice and experience with each other. But always remember that many women prefer to be in trusted relationship first before they experience with such intimate activities.

Care for her, let her trust you, and you might have the most unforgettable kissing experience ever.

Is your girl tall than you are? If she is taller than you are, you are still able to kiss standing up, but it would take some effort on her part. Just let her know your intentions and if she likes you, she can figure out the most comfortable position for kissing.

Tall girls aren’t really that much different from any other women. Women are women, the only factor that matters is whether she actually likes you and how much. If she likes you a whole lot, then you will have a lot of luck with her not just in kissing, but love, relationship and so much more.

I wish you all happy, unforgettable and pleasurable kissing!

Are short men unlucky in love ?

What every tall woman should know about herself

It always seems that short guys are either miserable in dating or completely alone and single. Is it really true that short guys are unlucky in love? In my opinion, if a man, whether he is short or tall is alone and single, then he is simply isn’t very needy.

For example, a man whether he is short or tall, would try really hard to pursue a woman if he had a real need. Most people embarrassed to feel needy, they prefer to say “they want a woman in his life” but a true and real need will help a man to get through all the hard work of meeting and pursuing women. And very often it just comes down to a power struggle between a man and a woman, but I’ll write about it more in some other post.

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Very often, single men, simply aren’t as needy as they proclaim to be. It’s not a conscious decision for a man to be so needy or not, it’s just subconscious need that you can’t really control.

A man might desire to be in a relationship in his own fantasy, but in reality he simply doesn’t need a woman as much as he imagined that he did.

If a man had REAL need to be in a relationship, then he wouldn’t sleep or eat but keep looking for a woman to satisfy his need. Most men they think they “need” or “want” a woman, but it’s nothing comparing to the real need.

If a certain man needed love so badly, then he would not only think about it, but he would be doing something every day, even many times a day, attempting to make his dreams come true and get closer to a desired “relationship”.

Too many men simply give up too early. Some women approach finding a husband as important task as finding a job. They put a highest priority on it. But a lot of men, don’t take relationships as seriously as they could. Men think they have done enough, but in reality they could do so much more.

So, short men aren’t particularly unlucky in love, but they simply underestimate the effort that it takes to find a woman of his dreams. A lot of men treat jobs a lot more seriously than they approach a relationship.

Short men can be lucky in love

A lot of short men have been hurt too much, that’s why it’s painful to give more effort without any reassurance. Once you get burned a few times, it’s really hard to try some more.

If you are a short man and you feel like you given a lot but didn’t receive much back from women, you need to realize that it’s always good to try.

Don’t be afraid to try and experience love. But at the same time, you have to remember that maybe you are just not a needy guy and you don’t have to be in a relationship. It’s perfectly o’kay to be single and just to focus on your job or hobbies.

So many people put unrealistic expectations on a relationship, but in reality, it’s ok to be single and it’s ok to be in a relationship as well. Don’t be ashamed for being single, maybe you are just a very independent man.

Some women are actually put off by independent men, most women usually want to feel close and have you as a friend to do things with, but for a lot of men it’s a hard concept to grasp.

No, short men not unlucky in love, but a lot of them just aren’t as needy as they think they are or aren’t trying as hard as they should or they get attracted to a wrong person and expect too much from initially wrong woman, or they are simply too independent.

Dating tips from a tall girl

First of all, you need to be clear with your desires, expectations and know what you want. You need to know if you want a short term relationship, a long term relationship, friendship or marriage. Most people want to find a soul mate, life time partner, but many people just want to stay single forever. You need to be honest with yourself and with your partner too. Never mislead anyone if you are not ready to commit but your partner wants a commitement.

Know what you want from your partner.

You need to know your expectations for her/his looks, lifestyle, activities and other good or bad habits. You also need to have realistic expectations. Many people never marry because they have so many expectations that no one person can fulfill it all. You need to decide what are your most important expectations.

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I know many men want a beautiful and thin woman, but you need to be realistic and set realistic expectations. It’s o’kay to have desires but don’t live just in your fantasy land. You also need to know what you can offer to a beautiful woman.

Date

If you don’t date or don’t go out, you will have less chances to meet your special someone. Try online dating first and see if you can find someone you like, it would be easy start.

Be polite

Women love men who are polite and show appreciation. Don’t be afraid to be a nice guy, not every one wants to be teased and challenged in that way. Many men get dating advice to tease women and challenge them but very often they come across as rude people who women try to avoid. You can try your rude jokes or tricks but if a woman doesn’t react well to them, you better quit and find a different approach before you lost her.

Be positive

Most people would tell you be confident, but I’ll tell you be positive. When someone tries to advice you to be confident you could get confused because most of us think we are confident. Only other peoples feedback gives us doubts about our confidence. So, you better try to be positive than trying to be confident, because trying to become a positive person is a more specific advice and what you can do about it.

Positive thoughts can make you more positive, but also exercise and loving relationships.

If you don’t have any loving relationships in your life, then focus on loving yourself and receive God’s love, it should improve your mood greatly.

Try to notice what good you have in your life too because so many people would love to have what you have, be appreciative.

Spend money

Be reasonable how much money you can spend during your dating.

Women love when you spend money on them, it shows them you are serious and generous. Women love men who have money and can afford to spend on them. If you are on a tight budget, there are many women who just want love and don’t care about your money or your success, maybe she even would want to support you! It would be a lot harder to find such a woman but it’s possible. I know a few cases where a woman is a breadwinner and a husband is a stay home husband.

Tell compliments

Most men always tell many complements, so you probably don’t have to worry about it and you know what to tell to a woman. Try to tell her a unique complement. Most men say “You are very beautiful!” it’s nice but your girl probably hears it every day many times a day. Come up with something unique that she didn’t hear from anyone yet. She will remember your words longer and you will stand out in her mind. Women love complements!

Tall women with short men

Tall women with short men

Yes, women like short men or tall men and all types of men. Most women prefer a man to be taller because of social expectations but when it comes down whether they like a man or not…his height won’t be the most important quality in her attraction to a man. Men give more importance to “certain look” than women do. I heard many men told me they would date only thin women or said they only get sexually attracted to thin women.

As far as women, I never heard a woman say she gets attracted only to tall men or only to muscular men. Women’s sexuality isn’t as visual, where as in men, visual attraction plays a lot bigger role. If you are a short men, you don’t have to worry about woman’s sexual attraction, it’s more in her mind than in her eyes.

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Tall woman with short men is Sexy!

Yes, tall women with short men look very sexy, it’s so rare and very attractive. You can see many celebrities where a man is a lot shorter than a woman. Look at the pictures of tall men and women in this article “Why do tall women love little men?” It’s so beautiful to see a tall woman with a with a short man. Tall women turn peoples heads who eager to look at them and when a tall woman with much shorter man they turn heads even more.

Many rich and famous men dated very tall women and in our society tall is equal to beauty, model type looking, so no surprise why rich men and go for tall women too. If a man and a woman secure enough in who they are, it won’t matter how tall they are either.

Experience with short men in my life

In my article Dating as a Tall Girl you can read more about my dating experience.

I can tell you it was great to date short men also, girls can easily fall in love with a short man too.

I never felt uncomfortable dating short guys. I always dated many men at that time in my search for my soul mate. Those men put so much effort in getting my attention, asking me out, being so nice and affectionate maybe that’s why I never felt uncomfortable with them.

They made me feel loved, welcomed and appreciated that I was always happy around them.

Usually I think I prefer taller men but when I meet a short man who I really like I could easily forget about all my preferences and expectations.

Short Husband

Maybe you wonder if my husband is a tall man or not. My husband and I are about the same height but I don’t consider him to be tall at all. Mostly, because when we are around people, people usually tell me “Wow, you are so tall!” but they never tell it to my husband even that we are similar height! So, he isn’t tall at all, but it’s o’kay. Very often I look even taller than he is because of my shoes and because I’m a woman. You know, women aren’t expected to be my height… I always thought before I probably would marry a taller man, but I was wrong.

I found so many attractive qualities in him that it wasn’t even a question in my mind whether I want to be with him or not. I married him even that he is not the tallest men I dated. He has unique qualities that I can’t find in anyone. His wonderful character is more important than his lack of height. We have been married for many years already.

My sister is married to a man who is the same height as her as well (she is about 5’9 tall and her husband is similar height also). So, there are many women who want to marry a man that is not taller than her.

What kind of women do men like ?

Different types of women

It depends on a man. People who are coming to my website usually like and look for very tall women. Many men like thin women, other men love big, fat, or overweight or obese women. Some men love very tiny short women and other men love older women. As you can see there is a variety of women and men who love different types of women.

Beauty is in every woman. Every woman is desirable by someone no matter of her size, shape or hair color.

Why we like what we like

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Each of us had different experiences in our lives. This is what makes us so unique. Even the happiest couples and happiest soul mates have something different about them and it is fine. If you had positive experiences with certain type of women who look big or tall then you will always be attracted to them or look for them.

Being judgmental

We do judge people even if we don’t realize we are doing it. We don’t always do it on purpose or to get something out of it. We do it because we have previous experiences and we are avoiding getting hurt and we want to find what we like. Everyone wants to be happy, so by unconscious judging we are looking for what will make us happy. We get attracted to certain people if we had positive experiences with someone similar to them.

Personality men love

Most men love soft, feminine women. Of course there are some men who love dominant and powerful women, but in my experience most men prefer a softer woman.

Woman’s personality and positive attitude is more important than anything else.

I only realized how much personality is important by comparing to my short friends.

I was always very tall, so one day, when I was younger, I was talking to my friend, telling her that she probably will have more dates and maybe will get married earlier because there are probably aren’t too many tall men for me to choose from.

After that we have grown and started dating, It turned out I was getting a lot more dates and got married earlier because of my personality.

Another important factor is positivity. I was always noticing positive sides in a man if I liked him and my girl friend was a lot more judgmental no matter who she would meet. If we want to be happy we need to love men. If we love them, they will feel it and love us back too.

Why tall women like Short men

Did you meet tall women who only prefer short men? Height prefference can be such a unique preference that some tall women are looking for. Not all tall women want short men but many do. Did you meet someone who would tell you they like only the certain way or have a certain type of hair color or eye color? If a tall woman had more positive experiences in her life with a shorter men than she will prefer shorter men. If a tall woman was hurt by tall guy then she is more likely to avoid anyone who look like him.

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Women have values

Different women have different values. Some women want only good looking guys, other women want only rich guys, and other women want only short guys. You never know what is her values until you talk to her, spend time with her and learn more about her. Many women have a very specific set of qualities they are looking for. Maybe she can find all her unique qualities in a short guy. If a short men can meet most of her important needs then of course she will choose him.

I noticed more and more women marry shorter men. Not every woman is as tall as I am, but even average height girls are often marry a shorter man. I think it is very beautiful to see a man with a taller woman.

Look at Tom Cruz and Katie Holmes, they are a cute couple, she is taller than he is especially when she is on heels.

If I wear heels then my husband is shorter than me too and we both still look good together.

For some women height is a very important quality in a man and they are specifically looking for only tall men. So, it depends on a woman.

Advice to short men

If you love tall women and you meet a very tall woman, don’t just assume she is looking for tall men. Give her a chance. You don’t know her yet, so maybe she loves shorter guys.

Or maybe her most important qualities in a man isn’t height at all. Take your time and get to know her, you might be pleasantly surprised and you could have a great relationship together!

Tall Amazon Women

They are, tall, strong, sometimes can be muscular. Many men love this type of women.

Some men dream about a woman who can protect him, especially if a man short and weak.

People want to look up to amazons and admire their power and beauty.

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Amazons were strong warriors who fought in wars and Greeks have many myths about them. Women ruled everything and were even superior to men.

Some countries still have women who make all decisions in families.

Just because a woman is feminine sometimes she can be a boss in the family too. It depends on each family.

Powerful Amazons

Amazons are beautiful and powerful but men are weak and have to be told what to do. To this day people love and admire strong women. Many bodybuilders look like strong powerful women and they love to be women. If a woman has a strong body it she will find many admirers and followers.

I’m not as muscular as some women are, I’m more “skinny” but because of my tall height I had moments in my life when I felt more powerful or that I can do anything. Some women are more or less “Amazon type” but it would be great if each of us remembered those strong amazon women and knew we have that strength in each of us! I’m sure you met strong women before, I am sure you can remember at least a few examples where you standing next to a very strong woman.

Fantasy or Reality?

Very often it’s just a fantasy to many people.

In our modern world women choose the role they want to have in this life. Many women are worriers because they have to work, raise children and take care of everyone.

Just because a woman doesn’t look like an ancient worrier amazon, she is still a worrier in her heart and her life.

People tend to think that girls have it easier, but in reality we all have challenges…men and women!

We, as women have an amazon power even if we look feminine and sometimes not threatening and many men already know it. Amazon women are wonderful in looks or in heart.

Some strong amazon women prefer a weaker man by herself but other amazon women would love even stronger man than she is. It depends on a particular amazon woman. Just because she is strong, muscular and powerful doesn’t guarantee you would know what she wants.

There are possibilities she would be attracted to only weaker men or only stronger men or both, just depends on a woman. Here are some interesting links for you if you are interested in amazons:

How to tell if a woman is dominant

If you are looking for a dominant woman, notice her character traits. Dominant women like to be controlling, like to be in charge and like to be first in everything. The same characteristics as you would find in a dominant male. Dominance is similar in men and women, it’s a desire for power and desire to control someone. Most of us have dominant characteristics as a part of our nature but some people have them even more than others.

For a dominant woman it would be very important to have more power than her partner. There are many couples where a wife is a boss in the family if you know what I mean.

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Dominance in sexuality

Sometimes dominance can be expressed in people only as sexuality. I don’t consider myself a very dominant woman, so I don’t know if any women really dream and want to dominate men. Maybe some women like it. For example, some men dream about being dominated by a dominant woman only sexually, they just have such fantasy for some reason. Maybe a man had a strange experience with dominant women in childhood or youth, so he carries that psychological effect through out all his life.

In our society men are more encouraged to be dominant than women, so for a man who would like to obey to a woman it can be a secret desire that he afraid to express openly. For such men can be even harder to find a dominant woman of his dreams. Some men like to think about giantesses because of a dominant fantasy and they like taller and physically strong women who can have more power over him.

Can you spot a dominant woman by her looks?

Not really. Looks have not much to do with whether she is dominant or not. But the way she speaks, walks, dresses and carries herself can give you some clues if she is a dominant type. Some women look dominant and masculine but they are soft inside. Some women may look very tall and strong but they don’t want to dominate anyone.

For example, I saw a very big dominant woman on tv, she had huge muscles and was stronger than most men are. Surprisingly, when someone asked her what kind of man she wants to have, she answered, she wanted even a stronger man than she is. At first I thought if she is so strong she would want a weaker man, but no, she was only attracted to even stronger men. I never met a woman who would be attracted to a weaker man yet.

If you have a fantasy to find a strong woman who can protect you and take care of